tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post2559260018943824029..comments2020-07-18T07:13:36.480-07:00Comments on Our story....help: IronicDaniellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-32716419301600640542012-06-29T12:23:38.737-07:002012-06-29T12:23:38.737-07:00Everyone else has moved on? Well, yes...those whom...Everyone else has moved on? Well, yes...those whom nothing happened to and who have no compassion for the victims. It's easy to move on for those people.<br /><br />I've been told to "move on" after being held prisoner all night and raped repeatedly by two men I had trusted. How I wish it was that easy. But you see, I have this pesky thing called PTSD that just won't let me. If I could move on from the nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety, over active startle reflex, intrusive memories -- I won't bore you with the rest -- I would GLADLY move on. In fact, I am working extremely hard at recovery in order to do just that.<br /><br />What I wish is that the people who claimed to love me back then had not "moved on" as quickly as they did. Maybe if I had had a Danielle in my life, I would have found healing much sooner. Maybe two serial rapists would have been brought to justice. <br /><br />Anonymous reminds me of a recent sad situation. A grown daughter finally got the courage to disclose, in a letter to her parents, that her older brother had sexually abused her for years. The next morning, after receiving the letter, her mother called and joyfully declared, "I've read your letter and I want you to know that I've put it behind me! I hope you will too."<br /><br />Thank God, Danielle, that you are not like that.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01847552432061325769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-54992764824863924292012-05-01T14:35:23.031-07:002012-05-01T14:35:23.031-07:00Why do you feel like blaming other family members ...Why do you feel like blaming other family members is going to vindicate you? God wants YOU to forgive. He's concerned with your heart. Not you seeking vengeance. Move on, Danielle. Let your family move on. Let your daughter move on. Everyone else has.<br /><br />Pay some attention to your husband instead of this anger blog. I bet he'd appreciate it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-63135495724525906872009-10-02T10:45:37.709-07:002009-10-02T10:45:37.709-07:00I do not believe I am "going after Benjamin&q...I do not believe I am "going after Benjamin" or the rest of the family for what Patrick has done. Benjamin is accountable for his own actions and non-actions. I believe my post simply shares what I would consider valuable information. I hope for the sake of Benjamin he has been able to break away from Eddie's control BUT I think it is more likely that Benjamin has valuable information. It does matter if Benjamin knows the whereabouts of a known felon and is keeping quiet. Mean while working for an organization such as Teenpact.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-86319388829684037032009-10-02T09:49:48.809-07:002009-10-02T09:49:48.809-07:00I am sorry for the hurt and harm that Patrick Roja...I am sorry for the hurt and harm that Patrick Rojas has caused you. BUT, in no way should you go after the rest of the Rojas family. Benjamin did NOT do these horrible things to your daughther or your family. I understand being hurt and trying to find the rest of the Rojas family. Benjamin's life should not be destroyed or ruined based off what his brother did. Trying to persecute Benjamin for his brothers wrong actions is sad. <br />It seems like he is trying to live a life of his own. Wether he knows were his family is or not, it's beyond what we can figure out.God knows far more than any of us. Hopefully one day all the dark secrets will come to light. I am praying for you and your family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-56535951061275379702009-09-22T15:53:36.927-07:002009-09-22T15:53:36.927-07:00The older Rojas men know a lot about computers so ...The older Rojas men know a lot about computers so I figured they had set their e-mail up someway that wouldn't be easily traced.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-14548083648215119832009-09-22T15:27:51.674-07:002009-09-22T15:27:51.674-07:00From what you have said about the Rojases, they pr...From what you have said about the Rojases, they probably have very secure email addresses or are using false addresses to hide there whereabouts. Anyone can obtain an email address that cannot be traced without high-tech FBI level technology. I don't think that is the easiest or best avenue to trace them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-40340203879554019082009-09-20T17:57:21.301-07:002009-09-20T17:57:21.301-07:00Unfortunately, the police do not have the resource...Unfortunately, the police do not have the resources to do this kind of detective work...and I am not sure about the privacy laws...that is why the Rojas's have the advantage...overwhelmed police department. This is why I started the blog...if we can give the police the location of the Rojas's then the police will act. If there are any computer techs out there that can find them through their e-mail.....Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-74197028283920688022009-09-18T17:41:23.659-07:002009-09-18T17:41:23.659-07:00Can an email address be cross-referenced to an act...Can an email address be cross-referenced to an actual address? You'd think for a felony warrant, it should.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-17553025457511560762009-09-17T14:23:08.945-07:002009-09-17T14:23:08.945-07:00I wonder if TeenPact endorses people running from ...I wonder if TeenPact endorses people running from the law? HmmmmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com