tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post994817752390222517..comments2020-07-18T07:13:36.480-07:00Comments on Our story....help: Still Hurting, Struggling and BattlingDaniellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-76732583438225095432011-05-30T22:12:09.877-07:002011-05-30T22:12:09.877-07:00I swear some of your blogs are like reading about ...I swear some of your blogs are like reading about my life. No one understands the pain you feel as a parent except for others who have walked along a similar path. On our end we have lost so many family members who continued to associate with the trash that hurt my child. Telling me to forgive and move on....I just want to go off on people who say that, because they don't know, they don't know the feelings of frustration, the tears you have daily, the guilt, everything......they have no idea what you feel let alone to say "forgive, forget, and move on", my child will never be able to forget what happened to her, it has changed her entirely, she is not that same lil' girl that she used to be, so how do you just move on. It is a genuine unfair statement that no one has the right to make to you, to us, to others who have walked this path, who have been drug down a path we did not choose to take, someone chose it for us. My entire family has became the outcast. They act like my daughter has a disease. Some days you just want to crawl under a rock for a break from society. We used to have the best marriage ever, I actually did not mind bills, or the occasional blip of everyday life struggles, but this changed us, everything about us, we became a borderline hermits, and when I finally did after 2 years decide to go out on a date with my husband out of all things that could happen, we ran into the trash that hurt her. Going places are a struggle now, allowing her to go places are a struggle. We will never get back to where we were in life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-78719911210883050812011-04-14T17:05:27.318-07:002011-04-14T17:05:27.318-07:00Please know that my husband and I are praying for ...Please know that my husband and I are praying for you and your family. We pray that this comes to a speedy and justified end soon.V_Berrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-77159331405985271092011-04-14T09:43:51.667-07:002011-04-14T09:43:51.667-07:00Also, thank you for the continued prayer covering....Also, thank you for the continued prayer covering.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-42002908303792459122011-04-14T09:43:25.474-07:002011-04-14T09:43:25.474-07:00It's true. But it's been a strange revelat...It's true. But it's been a strange revelation to me. I know I am not "stuck," I am in the process BUT I sometimes feel pressure (imagined or real)that others believe I should be at a different part in my healing process. Being out of touch with the others that literally experienced what I post about, leaves me at a disadvantage. If they choose to read my blog, they know where I am and what I am still struggling with but I don't know that they too are still struggling and clearly still on the healing path.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06100402286712099487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4460050736394564003.post-2057679669578742682011-04-14T08:26:21.206-07:002011-04-14T08:26:21.206-07:00We continue to pray for you. It does sometimes hel...We continue to pray for you. It does sometimes help to know that other people struggle. Not as an excuse for staying as you are, but for understanding as you grow and allow the Lord to work in your life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com