If someone asks him, ‘What are these wounds on your body?’ he will answer, ‘The wounds I was given at the house of my friends.’ Zech 13 v 6

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Patrick and Jairus you chose this path.

"The offer of settlement does not compensate my clients for their losses."

The more I consider this quote from Micheal Davis on behalf of Patrick and Jairus, the more indignant I feel. I believe this is another perfect example of an occasion where it would be appropriate to swear. WTF?

This makes me so angry on behalf of my daughter. This makes me angry on behalf of all survivors of childhood sexual abuse.

The sexual predator, Patrick David Rojas, who abused my child is claiming we have caused him losses. Proof that he is incapable of comprehending the long term consequences of his heinous crimes against my children. The child he abused, the child he used to gain access, the other children that lost their community and parents as they once were. What about compensation for what our family has lost? Not just what we can legal claim as loss but EVERYTHING Patrick, Jairus, Eddie and others took from our family. Patrick chose to victimize. Our mistake was choosing to trust him.

Patrick and Jairus you chose this path.

Jairus, When you chose to stay silent you caused your own destruction.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, "appropriate to swear"? Are you kidding? As you are so sure that you are right and know the truth, please tell me where in the Bible you can find a verse that says it is sometimes appropriate to swear. I don't mean twist some thing up to get that meaning, I mean something that REALLY says so. You won't find it, swearing is never appropriate.

Anonymous said...

You are a very angry soul, I pray that God will calm you down and give you His peace. For He knows what is right and He is the judge, the only just judge. I do not know who is right, you or the Rojass, but I do know that God knows. A word of advise; perhaps if you wrote in the gracious forgiving and loving way of a true Christian people would understand. I'm not saying you are the bad guy, but raging on and on would imply it to be that way. So just be careful.

The Grace and Peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.

Love you!
-Somebody you have never met.

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Danielle said...

There is no biblical reference to swear. I am just being real, not perfect but real. Yes, when it comes to different aspects of this particular part of my life anger can rise-up. Again, I am just being real. I am not trying to pretend to be one way on the blog and another in private...I am living this out...sometimes it can be a little ugly. As far as claiming to be "right" the facts of the case are undeniable. The actions of individual Rojas members are undeniable and there are many individuals that can verify my statements on this blog. Despite my "angry, ungracious, unloving, unforgiving" ways (as Anon put it) the facts are still the facts, the truth of the story is still the truth...you are accountable now that you have the information. Are you willing to risk and innocent child?

Anonymous said...

what do your kids and husband think of what you write on here?

derdeb said...

Come on, everyone knows they are in full support....

Anonymous said...

There's a great deal of sympathy and support out there towards your situation Danielle but I would advise against the use of profanity as it's not appropriate Christian behaviour.

Anonymous said...

I think you are all missing the point. Listen to what happened and what she's sharing and respond to that instead of zoning in on a comment about swearing. Really?? That's what you choose to write Danielle about after ALL she's shared and poured out of her heart? You've got to be kidding me. I'm pretty sure God can handle it. And yes....I think there is room for some righteous anger here. Injustice has been done and I admire Danielle's authenticity and transparency.

Danielle said...

Thank you!

Danielle said...

I should have said, Thank you for getting it.

Anonymous said...

or... "thank you for sympathizing with my wicked sinful self and maximizing other's sins and not mine... eww they are creepier than me lets make em rot"

Danielle said...

had to let this one show their true colors...

Anonymous said...

Or maybe... you had to let it through because it's exactly what you believe.

Danielle said...

No, it isn't exactly what I believe.
You can pick at me but it doesn't change the fact that Patrick is a dangerous sexual predator of children and that Eddie has a warrant out for his arrest for witness tampering. It doesn't change the importance of telling my story so others can protect themselves and be educated on the subject matter.

Anonymous said...

It saddens me that several people choose to focus on an insignificant (three letter) portion of your post, and in doing so, completely ignored both your point and the legitimate nature of your feelings.

Besides, Christians aren't perfect - just forgiven.

Anonymous said...

I do not mean any disrespect, but so called Christian people who are so ignorant that they make stupid comments about your "swearing" and quote God make me sick. They are so righteous. I am put off by people who quote God all the time.

I was sexually abused by a step father for a few year up till the age of about 12. I had almost no contact with my real father and when he initiated contact after his wife died and he was lonely I was very happy.

On one of his visits I told him about the terrible childhood I had and what had been done to me. He went on to tell me that he had "touched" his step daughter inappropriately, but that God had forgiven him for this as he had subsequently given his life over to The Lord.

I did not comment on this to him (I am a coward) but since then I do not want contact with him. To me he is a pig and if that is what being so holy is about then I do not want any part of it.

He did not ask his victims forgiveness, but just Gods.

I think that is such an easy cop out. Do something bad....confess to God and you are forgiven. Rubbish!!!!

I feel nothing but disgust for him.

Danielle excuse my above rant, but continue with what you are doing. When your daughter grows up I am sure she will find comfort in the fact that you were always on her side and fighting for justice. I know if it was me I would love to have a mother fight like that for me.

I unfortunately am not in a position to help financially but I hope those who are support your cause.

That maggot Patrick does not deserve to profit from this.

Can he not be counter sued for the damage he has caused to your family?

Best luck to you and your family.